The fear of failure and lack of confidence
Most people have dreams and aspirations, but very few actually follow through with them. Why is this? There can be many reasons – fear of failure, lack of confidence, not knowing where to start. But if you want to achieve your dreams, you need to take that first step.
Start by writing down your goals. What actions do you need to take to accomplish those dreams? Personally, I was content with remaining in my comfort zone and somewhat still there. But the fact that I have taken actionable steps toward my goals are very comforting. When taking a road trip, you don’t start at the destination. You plan a route and accept the adventure involved with reaching your destination.
If you want to achieve your goal, you need to have faith in yourself. You need to believe that you can do it. And then take that first step. The rest will follow.
Goals are essential for our mental and emotional well-being. They inspire us, motivate us. And if we don’t have Goals, what do we have to look forward to? Life can be pretty boring without them. So, find your dream and go after it.
Ensure you’re surrounding yourself with people who are motivated and of similar mind. You will also get a lot of advice, some solicited and some unsolicited. You need to be very careful about who you take that advice from. Only listen to those whose opinion you value and who have your best interests at heart.
One frequent piece of advice I see given is to “just start”. And that’s really good advice. Also, the people you share your ideas with may tend to have questions or remarks that may come across as negative. However, don’t be easily offended as these questions may originate from genuine curiosity. Maintain focus on your destination. You never know who is watching or motivated in a positive manner by your actions.
Take the first step today. And keep taking steps every day. One day you’ll look back and be amazed at how far you’ve come. So don’t give up on your dreams, no matter how big or small they may be. Follow your heart and go after what you want in life.
You have to ask yourself. What is stopping you from achieving your dreams? Is it a lack of time? Money? Support? Fear? None of these should be an issue. You can make time, save money, and find support. As for fear, that’s something you’ll have to deal with your entire life. It’s natural.
The point is you will have to deal with obstacles, but if you want something bad enough you will find a way to make it happen. Just know that not everyone will understand your dreams, and some will try to dissuade you from achieving them. Surround yourself with people who support your dreams and who will help you achieve them. If that is not possible be willing motivate yourself. Don’t be afraid to proudly walk alone.
So, listen to that inner voice and start making moves. I am a man of faith and truly believe that if something has truly been laid forth for you by God. Who can deny you? Just know that if your dreams don’t scare you then they aren’t big enough.
When you find something that inspires a fire in the soul, don’t let anyone tell you it can’t be done.
Be fearless when pursuing those things which set our inner compass true North!
I will leave you with this final thought:
“The moment you give up is the moment you let someone else win.”
Kobe Bryant